pas d' amour sans amour

People go to different lengths to find love, they risk everything hoping that the risk would be worth it.. but why go far when you know someone already loves you? why run away when all you need to do is to look behind you? that's the funny thing about love, thinking that it's all a chase. thinking that "she's out there" waiting. it's not stupid, just funny. we are always concerned by the reality of "not having" or "not getting" what we want; and living that kind of life is a sure pain in the ass. it's like looking for something that isn't there. we should always balance our fantasies with life's realities. it's not as if we have no control of what is happening. this is no movie where we have a destined end. we control our lives through our different decisions and choices. sometimes they're right, and sometimes they're wrong. we are no car crash waiting to happen. were just people, who live their separate lives the best way that he or she can.

when we love, it is no feeling or something magical. it is a choice we have to make. usually we don't make the right choice the first time, but that doesn't mean that love is meaningless. the choices we make are never our own. in some form or another, other people influence our own decisions. but when we are able to make our own decisons in life, and in love, just through what we see, feel and believe, it would be the best decision that we are making, no matter what others say. emotions are too fragile for others to handle. we don't need to wait for the right timing nor the stars to tell us when to act or when to love. we always have our chance, we just never take it.

pas d' amour sans amour - not love without love